I would prefer a college student or student aged person it does not matter if he smokes as i know that there is no ideal partner each and everybody has corks or something that don't sit right with each other I mean it's all part of life the main thing is that you can overlook small things and enjoy the time that you spend together that's what it's about having fun and if you can't do that then well you're definitely not the ideal partner for me. Some of our fantasies (actually most lol) will involve others. Am witty and have been told I'm charming. Please don't miss judge me i'm over the bs little ignorant hoes who don't know their ass from a hole in the ground women i'm very out going and energetic. Sex is kept from view of our children no making out or disrespectful behavior infront of them.